November Stockpile

About 5 minutes after I published my last post, our schedule changed. I had managed to prep the refried beans and made some hard boiled eggs, but I didn’t get to the cookies, and we punted on the Onion Pakoda, as badly as I wanted them, because we ran out of steam, substituting some samosa from the freezer instead.

And then the kids schedule changed around as well as their Dad had to delay time with them. The good news is that we were able to shift our plans and still cook in. Well. One night we caved and bought pizza dough and cheese because we had no plan whatsoever, but we managed otherwise.

I wrote last time about spending an astounding amount on food this month. Every November, our food spending skyrockets. My total for the last post was $805, but if I subtract the non-food items, it was more like $645. But then it went a higher still. Our Walden Local Meat share was delivered, we project to spend about $18 on milk for the rest of the month (a little over a gallon a week is what we use most of the time), we’ll need a few more groceries – and then there’s the Thanksgiving cheese.

All in, our current tab was $939, and I expect to close the month out over $1500.

Zoinks. Not going to lie, that gives me the shakes.

But. Reasons.

First – a disclaimer. We are blessed as heck and able to invest in our bellies, not everyone is. My endless gratitude for our ability to stock up every November.

Second – a disclaimer. This is food we will eat for quite some time, not just this month. But the deals are now, so into the pantry and freezer it goes.

Also, this includes some more expensive event food. I’m on for a bunch of items for a 30+ person Thanksgiving dinner. And at this time next week, we’ll have every piece of our Christmas dinner other than greens and potatoes. Turkey, cranberries, stuffing, you name it – in the cabinets or the freezer, because we are having a turkey dinner, and the time to buy that stuff is now.

I do not shop like this all the time.

For the first 3 months of each year Eli and I cut back pretty hard – pantry eat down, and only buying what we need for the week. I expect my grocery bill for January-March, including our meat share, to run $1800 or less for the 3 months, or an average of $600/month, loaded towards the back. I will caveat that by saying we may pre-pay for our Walden Local share this year, which affords us a discount overall, which would be $1800 up front. That’s a full year, and it would reduce our meat bill by over $600 for the year.

Third – a disclaimer. I didn’t do a great job of tracking our costs or using things up in 2024. We started 2024 with Eli gravely ill, me juggling work, kids, house and animals and we ended it with me juggling the equivalent of 2.5 full time jobs as the division I work in got sold, and I have been overseeing the transition, a 537-person team, and my day job. Add to that our house and 2 busy kids, family, friends, the fact that both our refrigerator in the house and the one in the garage died this year and had to be replaced, and I feel lucky this year to have a handle on anything.

Despite that, we’ve done better this year on food management than in several of the past years.

In 2025, I’m going to track my food costs by category rather than overall to see if that helps get our costs down. We’ll have a few savings, in that it’s our neighbor’s turn to pay for the summer CSA ($675 annually spread over 2 families and 20 weeks, which works out to $16.88 per family per week for tons of produce and flowers). For example, I put the dog’s food and treats in our grocery budget right now, but not chicken feed or bunny food and treats. So I’ll carve that out.

I also want to know what we really spend and use.

We have reason to believe that we’ll finally be renovating in 2025, which we’ve postponed for 4 years because of a) a pandemic b) a monstrous tax bill from closing down my business that blew a hole in all of our plans for almost 2 years and c) some real job instability on my part and that meant I would much rather postpone than be in a bad financial position.

That means that we’ll need to eat down literally everything in the house, something that makes my ‘a stocked pantry is an emergency fund you can eat‘ wiring get a little anxious. So planning our grocery bill for next year is a little wonky in that I know we’ll spend less, I’m just not sure exactly how it’s going to play out. I literally hate running out of food, but I’m going to have to learn to live with it.

Oddly, eating things down initially puts more stuff in the freezer than it takes out. An example is those refried beans I made last week. While it did get rid of 2 mason jars of dried beans on the counter and give me 5+ meals worth of refried beans, it added them to the freezer, which got much more full as a result. Similarly, I periodically batch roast, skin and freeze acorn and butternut squashes so they don’t go bad, but that too is freezer space.

So, with all that said, why November for a stockpile?
1. Our winter share typically has 4 pickups starting in November and the volumes are pretty high for veggies. Some of the items last until early spring. Also, while this year we got our farm stock up in late September, most years we go around now. So we are inundated with winter veggies such as squashes, sweet potatoes, beets, carrots and onions.
2. Food prices are often rock bottom for the holidays. This is the time to buy sugar, flour, and other baking ingredients. I buy stuffing mix and other Christmas turkey dinner accompaniments now, because the discount won’t be as good in December when I need these things.
3. I’m a squirrel. There’s something about November that makes me want to tuck food into cabinets like nobody’s business

So we go into the winter like the pioneers of old, with a larder stocked with all the things, and then eat it down. Unlike them, if I run out of wine or coffee, or II lack something, I can go get it. I live in the country but there’s really good sushi about 1.5 miles away. Deprived, we are not.

But then it’s time to eat it all, and eating things down through the winter feels good. I delight in it, actually. It’s fun to work our way through that 50-lb bag of onions. It’s fun to meal plan starting with ‘Ok, so what do we have?‘. It’s marvelous to pull pesto out of the freezer to top our homemade pizza, and smell summer, knowing it will come again.

Some people shop and cook weekly and that really works for them, or even shopping and cooking more often. Others cook once and eat all week. We’ve tried both methods, and neither works really well for us – we just are always on the move, and because of that, having a very stocked house helps.

As the day wound down, I had prepped bulgogi for the freezer, made a double batch of turkey meatballs for Monday’s, our Sunday dinner, and taken the mushrooms I didn’t use and sliced and sauteed them. Once that was done I popped them in the freezer for later use.

A note about those sauteed mushrooms. I used to never use up mushrooms fast enough and ended up composting one too many of them. Then I started buying frozen sauteed mushrooms because I didn’t want to waste any fresh ones, but there are some recipes that previously frozen or dried mushrooms won’t work for. Then one day I was looking at some unused mushrooms and had an aha moment. Now this is how I deal with excess mushrooms.

So what are we eating this week?

Use up: cantaloupe, strawberries, beets, a random rutabaga I have, salad veggies
Lunches: LEFTOVERS, baby. All the way.

Sunday: Instant Pot Beef Bourguignon, a house favorite, warm naan, and salad with lettuce that miraculously came with our winter share. I almost left out the potatoes, but at the last minute I remembered. Whoops.

Note how I cleverly crammed the potatoes in the over-full pot.

Monday: Spaghetti and turkey meatballs, homemade bread, roasted broccoli

Tuesday: Kids are with their Dad, Eli and I have what we affectionately refer to as Bowl Food, usually a piece of salmon over a salad, or couscous, or cauliflower rice with some veggies mixed in. I love, love bowl food.

Wednesday: We have a lot of Thanksgiving food prep, so Eli will cook something simple. Could be as simple as Trader Joe’s Orange Chicken and rice, we’ll see.

Thursday: Thanksgiving. ALL the foods. All of them.

Friday: Recovery from all the foods, the kids are with Dad and Eli and I often go out on a date rather than cook. Possibly my pants still fit me, possibly not.

Saturday: Roasted beets and maybe bowl food again. Or soup.

Sunday: Chicken Souvlaki Bowls and probably I’ll start baking cookies. I bake a lot of cookies in December.

And then it will be Monday again. And so it goes.

Autumn Chill

Photo by Eli 5 Stone

The growing season is over. Last week I pulled out the last few tomatoes that could ripen on the window sill and prepared for the coming frost. It’s hard to believe I grew tomatoes into November.

After some unseasonable warmth, the cold is finally settling in. Jackets are coming out, cozy boots are being worn, electric blankets are back on beds, and tea and hot cocoa are supplementing mornings and evenings, along with the usual coffee for Eli and I. It finally rained this morning, which was a relief. We are in deep drought, and brush fires are running rampant through the area.

Veteran’s Day weekend was extended by an extra day off for me, which I spent taking care of some appointments – I was long overdue for an eye exam and a few other things, and braving Costco and other stores to do a stock up shop. We really, really needed to stock up.

Almost $805 later across 3 stores (ouch) we had almost everything we could possibly want or need, plus full freezers and cabinets. Add to that our winter share, and the bulk vegetables my Brother in Law had brought from upstate NY, and we simply won’t need to shop much until we get close to the holidays. Except for Thanksgiving cheese, but that’s in it’s own budget. Other than milk and fruit, we are set for a while. Like squirrels with their acorns, we’ve stockpiled for the coming winter.

And that’s fine because I’m tired, and while I do enjoy grocery shopping (other than Costco – too crowded and stressful) I don’t have much spare time for it. I much prefer to shop from my house. And we all want to cook and eat all the things, so a very deep and rich set of options from the freezersand pantry cabinets suits us here. The only thing we have to manage is food waste. It happens – like when our fridge died last month – but we’re getting better all the time at using things up. Years ago I wrote about Managing Food Waste and we still do most of the things – there’s only 1 bunny left now, Marshmallow and he’s old and persnickity and really only wants to eat kale and his treats, so we humor him. The chickens are getting older, but still great about scraps, and Teddy the dog does get some occasional leftovers. We also still compost as much as possible.

So what did I spend $805 on?

Food: The bigger expenses were chicken, salmon, shrimp and olive oil. I hadn’t bought shrimp in a long time, but I do like to have some frozen for a quick meal. All the meats get frozen and we eat multiple meals from them. These 4 items were nearly $120 of my expenditures. Assume 25-ish meals from the proteins at least.

I also bought a 12-lb bag of flour, replaced some pricier items that we lost when the fridge died (fish sauce, coconut aminos, etc) that I tend to keep on hand and use fairly frequently. Our snack box was getting a little thin on selection, so I spent about $50 on snacks that should last us a couple of months. That’s a lot, but includes beef jerky and some things that tend to be a little more expensive, like mini RX bars.

I bought cucumbers, and greens for some salads, since 3 of 4 of us love salad. Lots of avocados and broccoli, since we’ll use them up. Kiwi fruit and raspberries to keep us in fruit – the kids love it. We also already had a cantaloupe, so we’ll eat that up as well. I didn’t yet any tomatoes since we had the last few from the garden. I’ll have to buy some the next time I shop. Green, yellow and red peppers for various meals and because cutting them up with some hummus is a family favorite.

I got bagels, tortillas and sandwich bread for the freezer, sweet potato crackers, lots of yogurts, a large block of cheddar cheese, more sliced provolone, sub rolls, and a pound of pastrami that we stuck in the freezer and make into hot pastrami sandwiches soon. I also got some more Parmesan cheese, since we use a lot of it. Couscous and chicken broth for the pantry.

I also bought a 4-lb bag of frozen peas. Those who know me know they are one of my less-favorite veggies, but we use them often in things like shepherds pie and Indian food. That bag should last us quite a long time.

I bought bake and eat pretzels with dipping sauce, ham for sandwiches (in the freezer for now), butter, also for the freezer- since I bake all December, it’s better just to have it on hand, 4 lbs of coffee (at $30 for the 4 lbs, it’s a deal) and a few other items.

Non-food: Lighters for candles and the wood stove, Advil, soap, conditioner, thermal liners for the kids for winter/skiing, socks and a couple of holiday gifts.

Our next non-small grocery shop will be in mid-December when we go to the Korean and Indian grocery stores for a stock up there. In the interim, we’ll need things like fruit, scallions, greens and milk.

So how am I managing all this food? Very carefully. Today I’ll blanch and freeze a chunk of the broccoli for later meals. I’m making chocolate chip cookies for the week and an Indian meal that should produce lots of leftovers for lunches for the week. We’ll have salads mostly until we run out of that, and stir fry, since I need to eat up some Bok Choy from our winter share.

I’m also doing some other prep, like hard boiled eggs. My goal is quick and healthy snacks and food for the week.

I have lots of winter veggies to use up – sweet potatoes, one cauliflower, squashes, onions, beets and a few potatoes from our giant bag left, but those are almost all gone now. I also have a cabbage that I’m either turning into pickled red cabbage, or going to roast in curry.

Here’s what we’re eating this week:

Saturday: Creamy Green Chili Tortilla Soup, which used up the last few fresh poblano peppers from our summer farm share – I have more frozen that I picked – popovers, and this salad with some substitutions – I used pumpkin seeds instead of walnuts, skipped the persimmons since I didn’t have any, used goat cheese instead of blue cheese, and added cucumbers and the last of our cherry tomatoes from the garden. It was delicious.

Sunday: My daughter and my husband were doing a volunteer activity in the evening, so my son and I went to Salem MA to do some holiday shopping and eat dinner out. We were home by 5:45 pm because we’re both homebodies and he went off to game and I watched some TV with a glass of wine.

I put some dried kidney beans to soak in water so I could make a batch of Haphazard Homemaker’s Refried Beans, which is such a great and simple recipe. Once made, I freeze them in side dish sized batches for future use.

Monday: Holiday for me and the kids. Preeti’s Dal, Butter Chicken, rice with peas, and Eli helps me make Onion Pakoda. Few substitutions in that last – I use canned green chilis, and dried cilantro since I don’t have any fresh. I will roast some broccoli for something green on the side.

I also plan to make chocolate chip cookies for the week. I haven’t yet started making holiday cookies, but that will start up soon.

Tuesday: I have dinner plans, Eli was working, so I will prep him some leftovers with a nice dessert

Wednesday: Using 1/3 of the dozen rolls I bought (froze half, kept 1 out for a sandwich for my son, used the rest for meals) to make hot pastrami sandwiches with sauteed onions, provolone cheese and whatever else people want on them, along with Fattoush and some roasted broccoli.

A note on the Fattoush – hands down a house favorite, I learned to make it after getting hooked on it during my work travels. The sumac is fairly cheap and it lasts a long time. We probably make this salad weekly, and I often roast slivered almonds on top.

Thursday: My daughter has her riding lesson and then went to her Dad’s, so it was just my son and Eli and I. Crusted salmon over couscous. Ours will have some garlic scape pesto over it from the freezer, my son’s will not.

Friday: The kids are with their Dad, so Eli and I will have either Butternut squash soup or stuffed spaghetti squash boats.

Saturday
: The kids have an art museum outing during the day, and will eat lunch out. If anyone needs dinner afterwards, I’ll make homemade meatball subs with some of the frozen sub rolls.

Sunday: Beef Ramen with Bok Choy added, and homemade potstickers, in order to use some of the Napa cabbage from our farm share.

I hope you all stay warm and cozy this November.

Photo by Eli 5 Stone


Spring Arrives

Spring finally arrived at Sithean after a cold spell following the Easter holiday, complete wtih forsythia, tulips and daffodils. Even the myrtle and the apricot tree astarted blooming. everything turned green all at once.

It’s been raining a lot, so Eli and I have only been slowly able to do yard cleanup. Still, it’s coming along – and hopefully by early May it will be mostly done. I’m regretting not cleaning out the big garden last fall, but I also find it peaceful to be out tidying it up. I started a few seeds, but not enough and not early, so I’ll be getting some plant starts from family and maybe buying a few seedlings for the garden this year, but I’m just not stressing about it. Whatever happens, happens.

This year has moved at breakneck speed, and the fact that it’s already two-thirds through April is a little shocking to me. Some of that was the series of crises that hit and absorbed the first 3 months of the year, and the rest was general busyness – work, kid activities, life in general.

I managed to take a 5-day weekend off, and started knocking away at my to-do list, which included yard work, some appointments, house organization, and rest. The kids needed warm-weather clothes, my son needed a haircut, the yard needed work and the house was slowly being overtaken by laundry mountains. But also I needed a few days away from my laptop, and I was recognizing the start of burnout in myself.

So the kids and I trekked off to the mall while Eli worked – it’s nice to get some time just the 3 of us occasionally, and he is working to finish his book, which sometimes means the fun stuff has to be put aside. We grocery shopped, they worked on projects, we went into Boston with Eli and their Dad for fancy Afternoon Tea.

Now that the crises – and there were 3, stacked up on one another – were past, we started once again to work on eating down the pantry and freezer with some simple meals. I did a Trader Joe’s shop, and then we decided to do a 3-week, $100 food challenge. Everything we needed for $100, shopping first in our house. Our pantry eat-down in the winter had been blown up by medical events, and in April I was just too tired and burned out to do the planning required. We had also had some unexpected expenses – my car’s radiator blew, the kids and Eli needed some clothes, a few things cost more than planned by a fair bit. So it was time to tighten our belts and use what we had.

Also there was a frozen turkey taking up way too much space in the freezer, and I needed a plan to get that sucker out and eaten.

First though, I had to make sure there was enough wine, fruit and snacks to get us through. I’m nothing if not practical, and I know when to expect a rebellion based on a lack of snack options.

So what are we eating?
Use up: Mangoes, sweet potatoes, kale, lettuce, eggs and I realized we have both regular and pearl couscous, plus fregola so we need to eat up a lot of tiny round pasta in the near future.

Meal prep: Bulgogi for the freezer, meatballs for Monday, egg muffins for breakfasts*

Saturday: Instant Pot Carnitas sliders, Fattoush salad, sliced veggies, mango salsa
Sunday: Trying something new – Crispy Pesto Chicken with Whipped Feta and Tomatoes and a favorite, Harvest Moon Kale Salad. I had frozen some delicata squash rings in the winter, and I pulled them out to thaw and roast.
Monday: Spaghetti and meatballs, popovers, roasted broccoli. There were some extra meatballs from making them on Saturday, so I put those in the freezer for a future meal.
Tuesday: Eli cooks for just the 2 of us
Wednesday: Eli cooks for all 4 of us
Thursday: Typically it’s just Eli, I and my son for dinner on Thursdays. Since my daughter doesn’t like salmon it’s a great night to pull some out of the freezer and thaw it. We’re going to try Sheet Pan Honey Mustard Salmon with the fingerling potatoes I got at Trader Joe’s and some of the 2 lbs of brussels sprouts we have in the fridge
Friday: it’s just Eli and I, so we’ll make something with part of a bag of shrimp in the freezer and pick a theme for flavor. Using one of the tiny round pastas, whatever veggies are in the ‘need to use up‘ category, it will be a quick meal after dropping the kids off at Dad’s.
Saturday: We have a busy day, so we’ll likely prep something in advance
Sunday: Top your own pizza night, made in the Ooni oven, one of our favorite things.
Monday: Chicken and Rice circa 1975, one of the house favorites. I saute 1 medium onion and garlic, add in 2.5 cups of rice to saute for a couple of minutes (stir constantly) then move it to an oiled 9x`13″ baking dish that’s on a jelly roll pan in case of leaks. I put 4-6 chicken leg quarters on top, add a quart of chicken broth, then sprinkle the top with salt, pepper and garlic powder.

Happy Spring!

February on the Farmlet

January blew through our house like a tornado – flu playing round-robin, emergency surgery and a long hospital stay for my husband, and nothing quite went as planned. So I think we all breathed a sigh of relief when February 1st rolled around, and brought with it something resembling normalcy. 

Still we are lucky ducks, with all ending well, and despite the periodic cough that seems to be hanging on for myself and my son, the rest of the year is looking much better. At least we got all that out of the way early. 

And once Eli was feeling better we were able to attend a cooking class as a family that had been a holiday gift to us all, with the kids taking charge of the Zuppa Inglese for 12 without so much as a bit of help from anyone other than the Chef leading the course. I look forward to having our own dessert chefs do more at home. We are targeting experiences over stuff this year, with the exception of more hospital experiences – I’ll think we’ll skip those. 

February on the farmlet starts to get busy – it starts quietly, and then by the later part of the month there’s seed-starting and garden cleanup on the good weather days. We still need to mow down the raspberry canes and the trench beds. Nearby the local farms are starting to tap their maple trees – syrup making is a long New England tradition, and it is one of those things that I love seeing. 

We are trying to balance experiences and downtime this year. Especially in the summer we get so busy we forget to be home just mowing the lawn, weeding the garden, and making fresh summer foods. I’m starting to plan the garden for the year, and bought some lovely blue pumpkin seeds I can’t wait to try. 

For now though, we’re eating as much of the winter foods as we can, and it’s time to eat down our bulk veggies in earnest. Saturday night I used 14 onions to make French Onion Soup, because they won’t keep forever. We’re almost halfway through them, and by April they will need to be used up. 

So what are we eating this week?
Use up: Cantaloupe, kale, oranges
Bake: Bread, if I get motivated, homemade donuts

Sunday: Family dinner, we aren’t cooking
Monday: Sheet Pan Sticky Chicken and Roasted Brussels Sprouts, Kale Salad with Pecorino and Walnuts & No Knead Bread I can prep the bread and some of the kale salad tonight and do a lot of prep work in the morning to make sure we eat at a normal hour
Tuesday: It will be just Eli and I, we’ll make a cauliflower curry soup
Wednesday: Roaster chicken with veggies, rice pilaf
Thursday: Eli will find a protein and cook
Friday: The kids schedule has been a bit fungible since their Dad started a new job – they mostly want to hang out with him on the weekends, since they see him less during the week. If it’s just us, I’ll make a butternut squash soup or a curry.
Saturday: Eli and I are going to make a pantry challenge meal together – using up what we have and getting creative
Sunday: Remember those Chinese chives I froze? Time for Chinese Chive Dumplings, Hunan Dumplings, some spring rolls from the freezer, rice and Edamame. 

If you haven’t heard about Hunan Dumplings before I’m not shocked but oh are they good. 

Prep for Monday: Chicken soup with rice. Any time we have a roast chicken, once we’re done with it I take the carcass and put it in the crockpot in water with herbs, bay leaves, and a dollop of vinegar. I then let it cook overnight, and at the end is the best broth. I strain it out, strip the meat and add that to the broth, and then chop carrots and onions, add some seasoning to taste, and cook. If I have a Parmesan rind, it’s perfect for this. 

I don’t add any rice until it’s getting close to dinner time, about an hour out, and then i add it on a low simmer, about a cup and a half-ish, but i eyeball it. 

Add to that either our leftover bread or some popovers, and that’s dinner. And usually a couple of lunches for Eli and I as well. 

I’ve started to plan meals for the rest of the month as well, including trying out Char Siu Pork and Lemon Butter Dijon Chicken and Orzo. 

But that’s later.

A Year of Abundance

I learned from my friend Melissa years ago to choose a word to frame each new year. New Years is her favorite holiday – full of possibilities and fresh starts, and I love that outlook. This year my word is Abundance, and I do feel abundant in every area of our life. 

On New Year’s Eve the kids came back from their grandparent’s house exhausted and with nothing left in their social batteries after a week of solid events. 

I made Beef and Broccoli from scratch – total winner, and a smashed cucumber salad that was good but not so good I would make it again and we ordered a bunch of takeout. Eli made a fire in the wood stove, and he and I watched Barbie, while kids did their thing. It was quiet but very nice with everyone taking the time to restore their energy in their own ways.

I meant to make Chinese Chive Dumplings for dinner as well, but I forgot to get wheat starch to make the dough, and while I could have substituted wonton wrappers, it wouldn’t have been the same. So instead, I chopped up the chives and froze them for a later meal. Honestly, you really can freeze almost everything. 

I’ve been really trying to preserve things lately and avoid waste, even slicing up and sauteeing mushrooms and then freezing them if we have some we aren’t using. I had some of our last apples that were starting to get a little mealy, so I turned them into cinnamon applesauce for our big family brunch too – just peeled, cored, and popped the apple bits in the crockpot with 2 tablespoons of sugar, a decent slug of cinnamon, and a little water. It was really good, and I sent most of it home with my sister since we had so much food. 

And here we are in 2024, entering it softly, and with optimism. We put the last of the tax impacts from 2022 to bed in December, and so we’re walking into the new year with a level of freedom from financial burdens we haven’t had for a while. 

Interest rates are very high, so we’re not sure exactly when the renovations will start, but it’s likely to be late this year or early 2025 because we want to be thoughtful about how much we spend and commit to spending. It’s hard to keep waiting, but we also know in our hearts it’s the right decision. It will happen, and in the meantime we’ll do some small-ish improvements that give us some quality of life, like replacing a few windows and finally bricking the walkway, and a few other things. 

But despite having to keep pushing off the renovation, we’re very much at peace. Everyone got things they needed and wanted over the holidays. We got to spend time with family. January, despite a couple of work trips, is going to be relatively peaceful, and we deliberately kept the first weekend open other than one errand that will take a couple of hours, because we all just need a break. 

We are slowly de-Christmasing the house, and I find the lack of ‘stuff’ in it refreshing. And what’s nice is that we really do have everything we need and then some. I’m grateful for the bounty in our lives and that we’re able to share it with others. 

And we’re having a very frugal month – eating down the pantry, focusing on our financial future. We do have a ski weekend planned, and a dinner at the end of the month with my parents, but those are budgeted in. 

This week we’re eating simple and healthy. To kick off the new year I made the Green Goddess Salad that is making it’s way around TikTok. It’s really good, especially after it sits for a little bit for the flavors to blend. Also, it makes a metric pantload of salad (this being the technical unit of measure), so you might want to consider making it for a party or as I did, give some away.

Use up: We have a lot of green veggies to use – spinach, baby kale and lettuce, brussels sprouts as well as tons of root veggies. 

Monday January 1st, 2024: Homemade chili, cornbread, green goddess salad, guacamole

Tuesday: Just Eli and I, salmon over cauliflower rice with veggies

Wednesday: Grilled chicken wings that were in the freezer, couscous, roasted brussels sprouts and onions

Thursday: Eli cooks with a protein from the freezer

Friday: Homemade pizza with various and assorted veggies and toppings

Saturday: Baked sage chicken meatballs (only we have ground turkey, not ground chicken) with parmesan orzo & roasted vegetables

Sunday: Clam Chowder and homemade bread

Monday I’ll travel for the first time in 2 months, so Eli and the kids will have a few days of their own meal plans before I come home and we start the meal planning again. 

Happy New Year to all. 

End-Of-Summer Food

The kids are back to school and the weather feels like August – hot and humid, but cooler weather is on the horizon and it is clear we are on the path to autumn.

This year I made a commitment to do better at preserving than I did last year and so far, so good. I have canned 3 kinds of pickles, made multiple varieties of pesto for the freezer, and blanched and frozen kale, broccoli and beans. I have also sliced and frozen zucchini, which doesn’t require blanching.

We are awash in tomatoes from our CSA and our own garden, so we’re trying to eat those, and for the San Marzano variety my neighbor and I have a deal – I grow them, he cans them and we split the end result. So far just a couple of quarts, but I expect more in the coming weeks.

I also tried canning Candied Jalapenos for the first time – no real idea how they turned out yet – and it is time for our first batch of Salsa Verde was made and jarred. We also are starting to get Poblano peppers from our garden and the CSA, and those are being seeded, cut into strips and frozen for use in Buffalo Skillet Enchilada Bake this fall and winter.

August had us spending a huge amount on food – we had run down almost everything in the house other than tomato sauce and paste, and some stockpiling for the next few months was in order. I tend to stockpile in the fall and spring, but next spring if all goes we’ll be cleaning out for renovation, so this may well have been our last stock up. The only things left are apple picking and to go to my sister’s in upstate NY later in the fall to get our bulk veggies.

But even without that, We are full to the gills on foodstuffs, and more is rolling in to be preserved every week. So it’s definitely time to eat all the foods. And the good news is that this time of year it’s easy to try to hit our 30 plant-based foods a week.

But first we’re trying to keep up with the plethora of CSA produce that keeps rolling in and there’s likely a couple more batches of basil pesto to make, although I’m running out of pine nuts, so we’ll switch to walnuts.

So what specifically are we eating? This past week was really hot, so our meal plan had to stay flexible. Here’s what we ate last week and what we’re eating this week, just as I launch into multiple weeks of business trips, punctuated by a few days at home in between each. Once my trips are done for a bit at the end of the month it will be cooler and we can cook more, but last week’s meals were mostly ad-hoc because no one cared enough about it

Breakfasts: Last week I made a big batch of waffles and froze most of them for quick weekday breakfasts

For lunches: Lemon Cranberry Quinoa Salad was last week’s pre-prepared lunch, minus the avocado so that it lasts longer. This week I’ll be traveling so I’m just making hardboiled eggs for Eli and the kids
Preserve: Pesto, salsa verde, drying sage and oregano
Use up: We have a lot of potatoes and oranges to eat

Saturday: We tried Coconut Curry Meatballs over basmati rice and homemade Naan, although we didn’t have ground chicken or turkey on hand, so I used a combination of ground pork and beef and kept some out for those who are still feeling their way around curries, i.e. our youngest. I added Raita and sliced veggies to go with it. We didn’t have sweet potatoes so I added peas instead. It was good but I would skip the chicken broth in the future.

Sunday: A batch of Ravioli Lasagna, garlic bread and salad for a simple rainy-day comfort meal

Monday-Wednesday nights I’ll be away, so Eli will make the kids ham, which isn’t my favorite.

Thursday: Eli will make us dinner, a chicken something with Brussels sprouts

Friday: We’ll have our CSA share for the week – 5 weeks left to go- and that means salad along with Rosemary ranch chicken and potatoes on the grill

Saturday: We’re heading out to pick apples, so I’ll make Cinnamon Sugar Swirled Apple Bread and maybe Mulled Apple Cider Cakes for the freezer, and to go with make-your-own pizza night

Sunday: Chicken and Rice circa 1975 – a simple rice bake with chicken thighs or leg quarters, a little onion and whatever else you have, all baked together with a quart of chicken broth as the liquid.

Monday: It seems like the heat won’t be quite done with us yet even past the middle of September, so we’ll go for tacos. Most of the work is making guacamole and cutting up the veggies.

Tuesday I’ll hit the road again and we’ll make another meal plan when I get back!

What are you eating?

The Joy of Eating

Most people probably don’t make chicken broth in their crock pots on a day when the high was 92 degrees F. But I waited until it cooled to 79 degrees and then put the last of the rotisserie chicken in the pot last week. I froze the broth for later on, but I would have lost the opportunity if I had waited, so into the pot it went, overnight. The leftover chicken went separately into the freezer, and the broth will make us a couple of recipes still, even after the multiple meals the chicken has already made for us.

Preserving season has begun. I’ve started to blanch and freeze kale, and I’ll be doing the same with zucchini this week. By next weekend I’ll hopefully have enough beets to start to make pickled beets and can those. And of course, it’s about time to start making basil pesto by the gallon, which we’ll eat all winter. I made my first batch and was very excited about it. And zucchini fritters. And zucchini everything. I really, really love zucchini.

I’m going to start dehydrating herbs next weekend as well, starting with parsley, dill and cilantro from our CSA. And then as soon as the August bounty of tomatoes and fruits comes into play, we’ll go to work on that as well.

Sunday rolled in with rain scheduled for all day, and it was certainly coming down with enthusiasm shortly after I woke up, so today was going to be an indoor chores day. My oldest was still off on their Outward Bound adventure, the younger had an afternoon with a friend, and I was packing for some work travel. We had gone out to an early dinner with my younger one on Saturday, where he tried some new-to-him varieties of sushi, then introduced him to Boba and our local fancy cheese shop. We don’t eat out much – it’s expensive, and we’re very good cooks, but there’s a real joy in showing a newly expanded palate how many options are out there for really good food. It was so joyful for us all.

The phlox and astilbe in the garden are starting to bloom, and everything is green and lush still. Summer at Sithean, especially when there’s no drought like last year, is a delight, if an ever-failing battle of weed management. But it is wet and humid, so much so that I’ve taken to refrigerating the bread so it doesn’t mold quickly.

This week, I’ll be eating out while on the road, but that’s not coming out of our household budget. With our full freezers and pantry cabinets, it’s time to eat down what we have. I ordered a few groceries, mostly fruit and pantry staples, and started a meal plan.

My Delicious Post-run Sunday Breakfast

We have plums, peaches and apricots as well as a few apples, a couple blood oranges and a honeydew melon for fruit this week. We consume a lot of fruit generally.

Sunday: Chicken Souvlaki Bowls with Garlic Fries, tzatziki, salad. This is a meal on regular repeat at our house and it is GOOD. It’s a little work, but i create the marinade and marinate the chicken, plus make tzatziki in the morning, chill everything, and then it’s really just the potatoes and salad to prep at mealtime.

I also hard boiled eggs and made a few loaves of Savory Zucchini Bread. The recipe came of me going for zucchini fritters and forgetting to swap the food processor blade, so I made a zucchini/onion puree instead of shreds. Oops. But I think it turned into a very good mistake in the end! I have to make it again with some more precise measurements and then I’ll publish my recipe.

Eli usually makes me a breakfast wrap for the plane ride on Sunday night, because I go before much of anything opens at the airport. I love my homemade breakfast, which i contentedly eat while I watch everyone else line up for Starbucks to open. He is cooking a lot this week.

Monday-Wednesday: Eli and Connor manage the food according to their preferences.

Thursday: I’ll be just back from my trip and need to head to the farm to get our CSA, so Eli will be on dinner again. Simple on the grill – burgers or something like that.

Friday: I’ll finally have some breathing room to cook but not a huge amount of time. I’m planning to try this Lemon Chicken and Orzo which starts with frozen chicken. It’s simple, easy and we have most of the ingredients. If there isn’t spinach with this week’s CSA, I’ll sub in kale.

Saturday: My parents come to dinner and Eli cooks our main course, but I’ll make the sides, including my favorite Kale Salad. Even if you don’t like kale you will eat this, I promise. I’ll probably make homemade bread too.

Sunday: Homemade clam chowder and popovers

Monday: I usually try to prep Monday’s dinner on Sunday. I’ve been meaning to try this Sheet Pan Pretzel Honey Mustard Chicken and Potatoes. I’ll probably make the chicken on Sunday so that when we’re hungry and I’m still working, dinner is just about ready.

Tuesday: I leave for the 7.5 hour drive to get my oldest, so I’ll pack food and drinks for the road, along with some treats for them after 14 days of eating on the trail. We get home around 8-9 pm Wednesday night, and then it’s meal plan time again!

It Seemed Like a Good Idea at the Time…..


How is it even late April? Garden season is upon us, and I don’t feel ready. Wasn’t it February last week?

I’ve been transplanting some of the bigger seedlings, and getting the garden cleaned out, something I ran out of time for in the fall. This year I have fewer seedlings, as I’m trying to be strategic about what I’ll have time to tend as we add children, and also what we tend to need to supplement from the CSA. I rarely need lettuce for the 20 weeks the CSA runs, or kale. So this year, I simply haven’t planted any. I will later on in the season, but not yet.

But spaghetti squashes, cucumbers, zucchini, tomatoes – there are never enough of those. Apparently I planted garlic last fall because it’s up, and I had completely forgotten. I mean, I vaguely remember, but that was a lot of busy ago. Nonetheless it’s there, in neat rows in the back of the Potager garden, so hooray, there will be garlic this year. I mean, so will there be from the CSA and by fall we’ll probably be drowning in garlic but I planted it so it must be a good idea.

Somewhere along the line in the last year I lost my sense of humor, and I’ve been working on transplanting that, too. We’ve had a decidedly un-funny couple of years, to be sure, and I have tried to not see folks going about their lives all cheerfully are total aliens, but it’s been a little like that. In my defense, a steady stream of pandemic, family deaths, money stress and not enough time will do that to a person.

But I’ve realized that taking everything seriously is actually kind of…boring. It shrinks your world and your interests.

And I really, really hate the idea of being boring.

So my new plan is to be amused by (almost) everything, because life is in fact really funny and weird, and embrace the chaos. I have always joked that I want “It seemed like a good idea at the time…” on my headstone when I die along with a recipe for something that someone 100 years from now will try to make and now I think I mean it. I also want a Viking burial, but those are not really a thing, so maybe I’ll just be composted instead.

As I approach my 50th birthday, speaking of the impossible, I have concluded that it’s really important to know what you want to happen when you die. I don’t really care if there’s a party, but if there is, there should be a wide variety of appetizers, because those are everyone’s favorite’s anyway. No stuffed chicken thank you.

And everyone should take something and use it. I still regret not taking my grandmother’s deviled egg plate, and although I have one now that is probably much nicer, it’s still a regret.

That said, my plan is to go on living for quite some time, enough to be annoying to everyone, so don’t come for my egg plate quite yet. I have a lot to do, and my intention is to be a very fun old lady.

Just not yet.

Yesterday was my probable last day of no-real-plans aloneness for what is probably a long time to come, and I tried to get everything done. Eli is still recovering, so I spent time in the garden and dealing with the laundry that needs to be folded and put away, did some cooking, including clam chowder and organized and cleaned out kids drawers, including starting to load up drawers for the kids who have not arrived yet.

The yardwork is especially a challenge – we have 1.24 acres, and we are the clean up & maintenance crew. Before the giant tax bill we were occasionally able to pay for a spring clean up, but those are pretty expensive, so we just do it as we can. This year that’s going to mean every time we have a free half hour we’ll need to be out there, but it does eventually get done. And in a couple weeks we’ll lay down a few yards of compost. Much of the soil here was pretty bad, so we’re slowly and iteratively working on it, building it up a bit more every year.

And of course, there’s our weekly meal plan and weekend meal prep, which is essential.

Clam chowder was dinner because Eli is finally be able to consume somewhat real somethings, as long as I cut up the Canadian bacon really small. That said, I was probably blithely optimistic about the switch in diets in my last blog post, this is really going to take some work and preparation to make sure there’s food he can eat, and while he eventually will be able to help, not yet.

The rest of the week is going to quite be busy so meal prep and planning is critical, for all 3 meals of each day. And because we have been tightening our belts more, I’m making snacks and things as much as possible.

So this weekend has been heavy on batch cooking. To help make breakfasts easier, I made egg muffin cups – this time with sauteed leek, zucchini and little bits of bacon – quick to grab, easy to chew, good for the freezer. We have a dozen, and I froze all but 4.



There will be leftover clam chowder for a couple lunches during the week, and I may make myself some chicken or tuna salad.

Today I’m going to make these Malted Milk Ice Cream Sandwiches with my son for desserts. We started making them during Covid lockdown, and they are worth all the time and effort. I’ll make tonight’s dinner, the meatballs for Monday, and then Monday evening I’ll mise en place for Tuesday’s dinner.

My target is things that all of us can eat – that the kids like, that Eli can consume, and things that aren’t too stressful for me. It’s going to be an interesting challenge. I might have been wildly overconfident in my last blog post about this. It’s definitely doable, but it is going to take some real prep and planning.

Sunday: Dinner will be stuffed Shells with Ground Beef and Spinach, which is always a hit meal in our house. I’ll probably make popovers to go with it

Monday: Garlic Butter Meatballs with Orzo with some onion and other veggies cooked in. I may make a salad on the side for myself and the oldest, and cut veggies for my son.

Tuesday: We need easy, quick and filling. Creamy Parmesan Sausage Soup should do it. I can do the prep work quickly Monday night or early Tuesday, and then finish the soup with the dairy later so when Eli and my son get home from Fencing class around 6 pm I can feed the hungry folks.

By Wednesday we should have enough leftovers we can have a night of everyone-present-feeds-themselves.

Thursday: More soup! This time Creamy Chicken and Mushroom but with boneless, cooked-until-shreddable chicken. Or maybe Chicken Tortilla Soup. Not sure yet. But definitely soup.

Art by 10 years old

Friday: Eli and I have to travel out to to do a transition visit with the little one, so we likely won’t eat until later. My current plan is to have soup leftovers, but if not I’ll quickly throw some meatballs into broth with sauteed onions, finely chopped and whatever other veggies I can squeak in, unless I manage to make Pav Bhaji in the instant pot that we can come home to.

By Saturday I’ll need another meal plan, and I definitely think that Shepherd’s Pie and Potstickers will be part of it. I also want to get Masarepa next month and make stuffed Arepas, which are a soft corn-based thick pancake that can be topped or stuffed.

I wanted to note a few things here. One, because we’re tightening our belts, we carefully choose the places we spend. Most of our meat comes from Walden Local Meat, a meat delivery service that specializes in local, organic, and sustainable animal welfare. Its important to me if we’re going to eat meat that we do it thoughtfully. We do end up supplementing our chicken and if we need – very occasionally – ground turkey, because there’s never enough and it’s really expensive, but we’re also trying to eat less meat, and less generally.

It’s a pretty expensive investment, so we’re cutting down in other ways. We have a budget and we plan around that based on what we need. Because I don’t always know what Walden local will bring, we often pick our protein and then plan the meal around that. I view this mostly as a fun challenge.

I really focus on things that can make multiple meals. Time is at a premium here, with careers, 2 going on 4 kids, and house and yard work. We have enough going on to keep 4 or 5 adults busy all day every day. In order to sustain that, batch cooking on weekends is essential.

And lastly, I rely on frozen veggies as much as fresh. I have found i sometimes don’t get to Cauliflower when i mean to, and after throwing a lot out, I sometimes buy frozen, which means our Pav Bhaji maybe won’t be quite as authentic as it should be, but I’ll make it when I have time.

And lastly, I love to experiment, especially with foods from other cultures. Often those mean much cheaper ingredients, like lentils, where a 5-lb bag goes a very long way, is a complete protein, and really tastes good. Dal is something I’m working on mastering, as it’s really good, and a great quick and easy lunch. Also there’s just infinite varieties of it, and other uses for lentils – here’s 25 possibilities. Not everything I try is a hit, but by providing variety I find that our options for inexpensive, filling meals grow every month.

We Stopped Buying Groceries in Bulk for 3 Months. Here’s What Happened.

Wow, how is it late February already? We’ve had an absolutely delightful Valentine’s Day, our oldest turned 14 and just gets better with age, and I’ve been traveling more frequently for work. But we did something else as well, that has taken much more creative effort, and that is to (albeit temporarily) completely stop bulk-buying groceries. It’s time to start seeds too, which always gives me hope for spring.

I write this as we head into another weekend of freezes, after snow and ice hit us – and a lot of people across the US – while I was in Florida on my last business trip. When I finally got home at 3 am after multiple delays, home could have been an ice cave for all I cared, so long as it had my family and my pillow in it. This winter has been an oddly warm one in Massachusetts, but we’ve already had one polar vortex, and this weekend is shaping up to be pretty frigid.

But back to no bulk-buying, which flies in the face of conventional wisdom on how to procure groceries. Still, there’s a method to my madness.
In January, the focus was on our pantry challenge, which was a mixed bag when time got to be an equal challenge for us, and we spent a chunk more than planned on food, but still a lot less than usual. And we ate significant space into our freezers and pantry, and used up things that had been lingering around. There’s still more work to do there, but overall I’d give us a B-. Not A+ grade, but still pretty decent.

But the other thing that I’ve been trying to address is that our grocery bill has spiked hugely since the pandemic started in March of 2020 for a variety of reasons. For one, unlike those that had time for hobbies, I work in Mortgage Servicing, and the pandemic job losses and governmental programs that launched to help struggling borrowers meant that we were busier than we had ever been before. I regularly put in 12 hour days, time on weekends, and logged in at night after everyone’s evening routine had wrapped up and I kept this up for multiple years. No sourdough art bread for us, between that and the kids schooling at home we were slammed. Which meant putting homemade food on the table required a lot less analysis and a lot more winging it.

Lots of mindless grocery shopping happened. Lots.

And with the kids home and everyone uncertain about the future, we started buying a lot more snacks and junk food than we had ever before, which we’ve tapered significantly, but that definitely added to the bill. What at first was a ‘whatever-gets-you-through-today‘ philosophy simply morphed into less-healthy habits and a higher grocery bill.

And of course shortages, and inflation. Add that together and our pantry and freezers were always full, but too full and with a complete lack of knowledge of what was in there.

So step 1 was to really concentrate on using things up. Step 2 was really to re-focus on meal planning not just for dinners but breakfast and lunches as well, and buy what we needed, and very little else. I mean, occasionally we needed chocolate covered pretzels or strawberry cheesecake Ben & Jerry’s but doesn’t everyone?

We really needed to get a grip, and we started to. And when we looked at our shopping habits, what I realized was that while stock up shops at Costco or BJs happened about once a quarter pre-pandemic, they were happening a lot more frequently once Covid hit. We never ran out of anything, and it was like having our own grocery store at home. Which is great, honestly, because we could make anything we wanted anytime, but also a little silly after we got vaccinated, boosted and were able to get out more. Groceries are meant to be used up.

So I shifted gears completely. Dinner meal plans were made and (mostly) adhered to. We reduced our meat intake, something we’d been working on separately. And we added a lot more vegetables, also working on 30 unique plant-based foods a week, which is a whole lot.

Our food budget has gone way down – on a weekly basis, we’re spending about $160 including several gallons of milk from our local dairy. Last week and this we spiked over $200, but that was because we were actually out of things we never run out of, like those aforementioned snacks. Even with baking cookies weekly to add to school lunches, there comes a point where you need to buy some things.

And we do still shop to recipes, because cravings! Like this amazing buffalo chicken skillet pictured below with ground beef instead of chicken because that’s what we had, but mostly we’re shopping around raw ingredients, sales and using the meats we have from our Walden Local Meat delivery. I’ve made this one 3 times now, and we rave about it each and every time I do.

It was a pretty big paradigm shift to just shop for the week, and the best part is that it has worked extremely well. Where we need to focus next is ensuring that there’s always healthy lunches available to us when we’re short on time during the week, but our weeknights have been remarkably smooth and pretty healthy, all things considered.

It’s true, we do run out of things these days, and it definitely requires a bit more thought, but it has also been a fun marital collaboration exercise, making a meal plan and a grocery list. Today it was especially fun because both of us had slept very little, and walking to and from the living room where we were lazing in front of the fire to check to see if we had things like lemons left felt like a lot of work, so when Eli managed to be the one to ensure we didn’t overbuy, it felt like an achievement. Try to keep in mind that the kitchen and the living room are about 8 feet apart. We are nothing if not exciting here at Sithean. This week we had a lot more leftover veggies and food because I traveled, but conversely we had a dinner request from my son and we were out of some things that we needed.

So what does that mean in practice? Well, we did already have lots of food in bulk form, so we’ve been eating that down. We’ve made exceptions for a few items, like rice, that we normally buy from the Asian grocery store in 15-lb bags, and go through about every couple months. But mostly we’re buying what we can eat in a week, and supplementing with items in our freezer and pantry. We’ll still do quarterly stock-ups at big bulk stores, and while we’ve trimmed down what we get from Amazon’s subscribe and save service, we still do have some items supplementing our normal grocery shopping.

So what does it look like? This week we ordered groceries from Whole Foods/Amazon because we would have otherwise been to multiple stores. While their prices are high on some things, they are also often lower on vegetables, and the produce is very fresh.

I’ve included our whole order with exact amounts below. This week included more meat than usual because my son requested Instant Pot Beef Bourguignon and Eli wanted homemade bread to go with it. We were running low on flour, which is normally delivered to us every few months in 30-lb quantities, so I ended up buying a 5-lb bag of it. We were also out of bacon, which normally comes with our Walden Local Meat delivery. I would say meat added another 25% cost to our budget, something to consider in the future. We already had the baby potatoes, onions and mushrooms, as well as beef broth, so it was the bacon and beef that were the costs.

And I accidentally orderd 1.5 lbs of deli sliced cheddar instead of .5 lbs, so we’ll be finding ways to eat cheese. And we bought eggs because while the chickens are laying intermittently, the cold tends to put them off of production.

Fortunately for us, cheese consumption isn’t typically a problem. And we have pineapple, honeydew, apples and oranges for fruit, along with a few blackberries we’ll eat in the next 24 hours.

So what does this week’s menu look like?
Friday : For breakfast Connor and Eli made me and themselves some eggs – Connor’s first omelet was delicious! I supplemented with Trader Joe’s bake-your-own croissants from the freezer, which are a favorite treat around here.
Instant pot beef bourguignon and homemade bread were dinner for 3 of the 4 of us, since our oldest met friends for dinner. The weather was cold and I was tired from traveling all week for work, so this was a lovely warm dinner to sit down to, and not a lot of effort.
Saturday: Dinner out, our annual Igloo dinner on the water with my parents. Breakfast and lunch were leftover beef stew and bread, eggs and bagels. Oldest had leftovers from dinner out.
Sunday: Waffles and bacon for breakfast, leftovers and catchall for lunch, Stuffed Shells for dinner with salad and cut veggies – I had bought most of the ingredients for the stuffed shells the week prior, and ran out of time to cook them.
We’ll prep cupcakes for my son’s lunches and Lemon Cranberry Quinoa Salad for lunches. If I have time I’ll make granola. We’ll also cut up the pineapple we bought previously and eat up the last of the blackberries from Misfits Market.
Monday: Breakfast is leftover waffles, or egg sandwiches with English muffins we already had, ham, egg and cheese. Lunches are quinoa salad and whatever supplements catch our eye in the fridge. Eli cooks chicken with plenty of leftovers, broccoli that we already had and rice will be the sides.
Tuesday: Breakfast is pretty similar to Monday, but I’ll probably have scrambled eggs and we have oatmeal as well. Dinner is a simple Chicken Pot Pie Soup, using up some cooked chicken I have in the freezer with salad and cut veggies on the side. The celery was bought last week and really needs to be used.
Wednesday: Our oldest goes to Dad’s after Volleyball, so it’s our son and us. Eli cooks, TBD but we have a lot of peppers from previous shopping trips, so maybe stuffed peppers. Breakfasts again are egg sandwiches, scrambled eggs, or oatmeal.
Thursday: Same breakfasts as before, but usually by this point in the week I’m eating leftovers for a combo breakfast/lunch. It’s just Eli and I, so we’ll make the last 2 frozen salmon fillets in the freezer over cauliflower rice and with some crispy brussels sprouts.
Friday: Simple breakfast – eggs, cereal or oatmeal, and Eli and I will eat Tuna Salad for lunch, which we have everything for already. I tend to add dried cranberries and red onion to it. The kids are with Dad this weekend, so dinners will be simple and healthy for the 2 of us.
Saturday: We’ll probably need a few things for the week, and some more milk, but this week’s grocery shop should be much less. Lunch is TBD, and dinner will be a simple marinated meat or fish with Kale Salad with Crispy Sweet Potatoes and Chickpeas. In addition to a few things we’ll need for the week, we’ll get more of the La Fermiere Honey Blossom yogurt, which is a huge splurge and treat, but oh-so-delicious.
Sunday: The kids come home today, and I have one more big package of chicken breasts in the freezer, so I’ll make Sheet Pan Sticky Ginger Sesame Chicken, which I’ve been meaning to try and then also marinate chicken for sheet pan chicken fajitas on Monday and probably prep some chili for lunches during the week as well as chocolate chip cookies for snacks and lunches.
Monday: Sheet pan fajitas, guacamole and salsa, salad

We’ll still have a bunch of food to use up, including a couple of butternut squashes from our autumn stock up, so I’m already planning the next meal plan. It’s almost, but not quite, time to stockpile for a few months, and Eli and I have decided to splurge on a Costco membership, mostly for the reduced-price gas. We still like to go to BJs as well with the Moms because they have things Costco doesn’t, so we’ll try to do that periodically.

Items in your order (40)


Bell & Evans Boneless Skinless Chicken Breast

1

3.83 lb ($7.49/lb)

$28.69


Beef Stew Meat Grass Fed Step 4

2.97 lb

2.97 lb ($10.99/lb)

$32.64

Weight adjusted from est. 3.00 lb


Wellshire Farms Virginia Baked Ham

0.50 lb

0.50 lb ($12.99/lb)

$6.50


Cabot Mild Cheddar Cheese

1.50 lb

1.50 lb ($8.49/lb)

$12.74


Burnett Dairy Provolone Cheese

1.00 lb

1.00 lb ($8.49/lb)

$8.49


Bacon Pork Bulk Dry Rub Black Forest

1.00 lb

1.00 lb ($10.99/lb)

$10.99


Onion Green Scallion Conventional, 1 Bunch

1

$1.19


Carlson Orchard, Cider Apple, 64 Fl Oz

1

$4.99


365 by Whole Foods Market, Eggs Brown Large Grade A, 12 Count

1

$3.99


365 by Whole Foods Market, Shaved Brussels Sprouts, 12 Ounce

1

$3.49


365 by Whole Foods Market, Pasta Elbows, 16 Ounce

1

$1.29


365 by Whole Foods Market, Tater Puffs Organic, 16 Ounce

1

$3.69


365 by Whole Foods Market, Mushrooms Mixed Organic, 10 Ounce

1

$3.79


King Arthur All Purpose Unbleached Flour, 5 Pound

1

$5.99


Red Mango

1

$1.99


365 by Whole Foods Market, Olives Green Ripe Pitted Medium, 6 Ounce

1

$2.69


PETIT GOURMET French Beans, 16 OZ

1

$4.99


English Cucumber, One Count

1

$1.99


365 by Whole Foods Market, Seed Mustard Ground, 1.41 Ounce

1

$2.79


Lime Regular Conventional, 1 Each

3

$2.37


365 by Whole Foods Market, Syrup Chocolate Organic, 15.8 Ounce

1

$3.49


La Fermiere Orange Blosson Honey Yogurt, 4.9 Oz

2

$4.50


Sunset, Cucumber Mini, 12 Ounce

1

$2.99


365 by Whole Foods Market, Pretzel Chocolate Milk, 5 Ounce

1

$4.69


Sunset Grown Honey Bombs Tomatoes, 12 Oz

1

$4.99


Organic Navel Oranges, 4 lb Bag

1

$6.99


Large Hass Avocado

3

$5.37


365 By Whole Foods Market, Butter Salted Organic, 16 Ounce

1

$4.76


Icelandic Provisions 5.3oz Traditional Skyr Yogurt, Peach Cloudberry, Icelandic Cultured Dairy Product With 15g Protein Per Serving | Thick & Creamy T

2

$2.70


365 by Whole Foods Market, Peas Green Petite Organic, 16 Ounce

1

$2.99


Little Leaf Farms Crispy Baby Red & Green Leaf Lettuce, 4 Ounce

1

$3.99


Better Than Bouillon Organic Roasted Beef Base, Made with Seasoned Roasted Beef, USDA Organic, Blendable Base for Added Flavor, 38 Servings Per Jar, 8

1

$8.69


Honeydew Melon

1

$4.99


365 by Whole Foods Market, Organic Carrots, 1 lb Bag

1

$1.49


Kitchen Creative

We’ve migrated into the part of the year when we’re all supposed to be reinventing ourselves into new, better selves. As I sit at my kitchen table after a run on my treadmill (I’m training for a race, so eventually I have to run outside but right now it’s cold out and I don’t want to), I contemplate all my new improved self behaviors, such as patiently, rather than my usual impatiently, waiting for my husband to leave the kitchen so I can finish the leftovers by myself, or being excited when I accidentally drop a bath bomb intended to be used by the kids and break it, therefore making it fair game for me.

In my defense it is dragon shaped and apparently emits vegan sparkles.
I mean, wouldn’t you?

Our meal plan this week was just about flawless. Well, it was. Coming to the end of the first week of our pantry challenge, with a mantra of using up what we have, we had made a plan through Saturday to use what we had, with Sunday picking up on some added fruit, veggies and milk. Total spend for the 2 weeks on groceries? $66.61 + another $8.78 on a couple of gallons of milk from our local dairy. Not bad. We had plenty of apples, squashes, sweet potatoes and onions, plus some other random veggies in the drawers to use up. Our freezer had plenty of meat in it, and so far we’ve eaten pretty well. Then of course as we were taking stock for lunches we realized that we had definitely under-planned, and spent another $49.01. Way less than our usual, more than we had hoped.

Eli and I were by ourselves on Saturday evening, so my plan was stuffed spaghetti squash, a house favorite. And then I took a look at our 4 spaghetti squashes. Moldy, all of them. And I had just spent the grocery money that was supposed to hold us until January 20th, just under 2 weeks away.

The only thing between me and running to the store is our pantry challenge. That challenge is part of us cutting back spending to achieve bigger goals. But you know, I could have just run out.

I didn’t. I quickly started googling recipes for the ground lamb I had thawed in anticipation of stuffing the squashes, and mentally inventorying our food supply. Theme? I really thought I was going in a Lamb Keema direction, but since we’re short on our 30 plant based foods for the week, I was going to jazz it up. To be honest, we have a lot of root veggies to use up, so I peeled and chopped a few sweet potatoes and a rutabaga that had been part of our last winter CSA distribution, and melted some ghee in a glass baking dish. I had actually never cooked a rutabaga before, but I took 2 home as a challenge in late December.

And then, um, they sat in the veggie drawer.

I put the chopped sweet potatoes and rutabaga in the baking dish, tossed a bit more ghee on top, and popped them in the oven at 375 degrees F. I was going for nutritional density without heavy refined carbs. Not being totally sure how I wanted to season them, or even really if I was going to mix them in with dinner or have them as a side, I didn’t put anything else on them.

At some point I started mulling just how many vegetables I could stick in this meal. I have recently been targeting variety – 30 plant-based foods a week, which is supposed to be a huge differential in gut health. I had some baby spinach that needed to be used up, half an already-baked butternut squash from a recipe earlier in the week, and of course, onions and frozen peas. But the night prior, in a planned exception to our Uber Frugal Month I had dinner with a friend at a Tapas bar. She and her family are going through a thing, and sometimes you suspend your spending freezes and dry Januaries for a night of friendship.

I got a little inspired by the Potatoes Bravas we had shared, and went in the general tapas direction. Mostly.

I made the Potatoes Bravas sauce for the sweet potatoes and rutabagas, tossed them after they had baked for 45 minutes, and left them for another 45 or so.
There was a lot of sauce left, so to that I added a generous splash of red cooking wine, and the butternut squash, which had been baked into a soft mush. Stirred that around and it was surprisingly good.

In a separate pan I cooked the ground lamb, a package of frozen cauliflower rice, and the last of the spinach. I then combined it together in my cast iron skillet – I splurged on a Staub skillet a while back, and it is one of the best purchases I have ever made – and topped it with a hard cheese that we hadn’t opened over the holidays, called Casa de Medivil, in keeping with my not-really-but-maybe Spanish theme.

I toasted (ok, sort of burned) the last few pine nuts I had in my fridge, and added some olives and marinated peppadews and mushrooms to a plate of sliced burrata, then topped it with a little bit of Maple Bacon Aioli we had in the pantry that needed to be opened and used, and topped it with the pine nuts.

And that was dinner. Total plant-food count? 11, 7 of which we hadn’t had previously during the week. I don’t count the seasonings, although technically you can.

I did all this while Eli was putting on our new storm door, which required hours of creative carpentry, because nothing in this house was built to any standard sizes, since there wasn’t as much of that back in 1850. The new door is just about done and lovely, and my husband braving the cold to do carpentry on the porch is something I have endless gratitude about, especially considering I wussed out on being cold this morning even for the 5 minutes it would take me to break a sweat running.

Did we meet our 30 plant-based food varieties goal this week? I honestly don’t know, I totally lost track. Close…I think? I’ll track better this coming week.

Sunday I made a batch of chicken tortilla soup, and put together a shepherd’s pie, for Monday dinner I splurged on tortilla chips and fresh Pico de Gallo because it’s just not the same without.

I was traveling Tuesday and Wednesday, so Thursday I pulled some meatballs out of the freezer, cooked pasta, and added a jar of Rao’s sauce, and made some popovers and that, plus sliced avocado and peppers was dinner. Friday was bulgogi, also from the freezer, with rice, roasted broccoli, and some Trader Joe’s scallion pancakes I had bought on a whim and stuck in the freezer a while back. There were plenty of leftovers for weekend lunches.

Tomorrow is Saturday, and my plan for breakfast is two-ingredient pumpkin donuts (thank you @sydneyinsuburbia), fresh fruit, and breakfast sausage from the freezer. And then it will be time for steak tacos and more meal plans.

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